Scared to be Lonely

When we are lonely, we wonder when we will ever find someone to share our life with…

When we finally get into a relationship, we are worried how long will it last for, what obstacles will we face.. what is our future? Are they the ‘one’ for me?

Is there even the ‘one’ for me? What if there are many others better than this ‘one’? Should I stay or should I go?

When we are in a relationship we should really let go of, we fear the loneliness again…

When we let go of that relationship, we fear if we make the right choice, but we are afraid to show our feelings…because you don’t want to be vulnerable…

When we try running back to the relationship, we may find out that they have already moved on and we are hurt again…even more hurt and lonely than before

When we are at this point, we ask ourselves, did the relationship make us anymore less lonely or more happy? Who said we had to be in a relationship to be happy?

When we realise this, we realise we can be happy now…and that being a alone doesn’t mean you are lonely. We have great friends, family, and most of all-pets to take away our loneliness

Author: gyabolove

I believe blogging is a way to write down what are my struggles at the moment and to see how far I have come. Struggles and challenges in life are always changing, and it is a good thing to be able to reflect back on how you used to struggle with things and have over come it. To be able to look back upon your old self and laugh at yourself, is a good thing in my opinion! Thanks for taking your time to read my blog ;D I love comments, though for some reason, everyone loves to keep it a secret they have visited :P

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