Do as I say but not as I do

You’ve heard that statement, practice what you preach.

But how many leaders actually follow their own advice?

I mean I understand nobody is perfect 100% of the time.

But, doesn’t it suck if you have a leader who likes to tell others what to do, except won’t follow their own advice?

It is like they are immune to the rules of the company.

Hypocritical describes it I suppose.

There are no perfect leaders, but some are better than others…who work harder than they need to.

And some who you don’t want to listen to what they say or do, like Mr Trump.

The end of a chapter and the start of the next

The cogs of change are changing again and life as I had known it for the last 9 months , funny how it started as a 4 week gig. When did it change? When did I stop caring, stop striving, and lost my focus?

I think I did bring it upon myself…too scared to let go of what is safe and what is familiar and immerse myself into the unknown. I am not sure if that is partly the reason why I find myself in this predicament. But then ironically, I prove myself right. It didn’t work out, but at least I have a some form of security in knowing that I have the second job while looking for something new.

It’s scary. Not knowing what my future will be like. But hey, this has been happening every few months before a contract ends. I still remember the terror and anxiety I felt when my first contract was almost ending…I was worried did I make a good impression? I’ve always worked hard and did my best to be nice to everyone. But I guess when you so hard and with no recognition, you start feeling under appreciated, tired, stressed, and burdened. Too scared to complain because you want to be chosen to stay there, yet everyday feels harder than the day before.

This good bye was inevitable. There are regrets, but there are also moments where I had a confidence that I did not have before and I am proud that this difficult situation developed that in me. Standing up for my rights and of others is something that I strive to do. I think it has something to do with respecting yourself and speaking up when something things off or wrong. Working in a mental health institution has always been a goal of mine and I have fulfilled that and believe this was be a stepping stone into something greater.

Apparently, with this company there will be an exit interview…this is not something I have done before, despite working in so many places previously. There is so many things I want to say, but I need to be careful of saying anything too bad,  because I need this people to be referees. There is never a way to win is there? Better to leave on good times than bad. I am both scared, yet also looking forward to a change of scenery. Bring on the last 3 weeks of full time work…

Stay Tuned for updates

Brand Loyalty

So today, I did a dumb thing. I accidentally dropped my non-water proof iphone 6 into the toilet…It was my first and hopefully  last time to do that. I freaked out..!! All the germs that must be on my phone! So I did the stupidest thing possible, I ran it under the tap to wash it. Then I tried to dry it with a towel, then I disinfected it with an antibacterial wipe. Yes, it’s probably clean, but also I have unknowingly (?) caused water damage to my phone. The screen is like all messed up, the touch ID finger print sensor doesn’t work anymore, and it permanently says I have headphone plugged in when I certainly do not. So basically I have a phone that you cannot hear from, cannot use touch ID, and has this white glow in the middle of the screen. Fingers crossed no one will call me in the next few days until I get my new phone.

So I bought a new iphone outright on a whim. THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH HAVING A CREDIT CARD!!! I will write a separate post for that. Extra time to pay off my large purchases? Yes Please. 😦 . I have decided to upgrade to a iphone 11. Currently I have a SIX. Which is basically ancient and was dying before I dropped it in the water…So it was sort of good timing I GUESS. Why did I get a new iphone? I can’t explain it. I am not interested in other phones anymore…4 years ago I got my first iphone and have fallen deeply in love with it, then it spiraled out of control from there. After my first iphone, I got a second iphone 2 years later…then I splurged on a MAC BOOK AIR..and this year I got Apple airpods. What’s next?!?! Probably Apple Smart Watch when if and only IF my fitbit ever dies or I lose it again. It just makes sense to get another Apple product to complete my collection. I just love all my Apple products.. HECK if there was an Apple car … TAKE MY MONEY? Did I tell you I have the Apple sticker on my car, in my poor attempt to make it an apple car? Lame. I know. But this my friend, is BRAND LOYALTY.

It can start off subtle, when someone you know takes out their iphone and it’s SO SHINY and apparently the battery life is great! You compare it with your shitty android phone with bad battery, and think to yourself…Let’s try getting an iphone next time! THEN you are hooked. Probably hooked for life. It’s not just phones as well, it’s cars, vacuum cleaners, hair straighteners, clothes, skin products.  I think we as humans have just made brand loyalty as part of our DNA…and addiction, a habit…and it starts with those around us like our parents influencing us. I have a Toyota because my parents usually bought toyotas. My sister bought a GHD hair straightner, so I also bought one. I bought an iphone, then my mum and brother followed suit. Heck, we even make habits of even where we choose to cut our hair and hence because of Covid I haven’t had a hair cut in almost 10 months because my hairdresser isn’t open :(.

My point in all this is (if there is a point) to raise an awareness of our brand loyalty. Why are we so loyal to that brand? It most likely would be because of the product’s reliability and how durable or how well it functions. I trust Apple to always make a good quality, long lasting, and sleek looking devices. I know it may seem over-priced, but I rather spend a bit more on something I will really love using and look after, than something cheaper which I don’t love.

What brands are you addicted to?