On Masculinity

Do all girls like big guns, tall strong men with big you know whats? I honestly don’t and therefore…does that make me abnormal?? I don’t know.

Why does society have ingrained in us that the guy is the ‘Protector of the small and weak girl’, saves the girl… lifts weights, and says and does all those romantic stuff. Men are usually seen as leaders, they are the ones who ask the girl out… propose marriage.

In my little mind, I imagine the man driving the car, paying for dinner, lifting those heavy boxes…call me old-fashioned, but that’s my thoughts on men. I would feel weird if the guy was skinnier or lighter than me…if they were shorter…I might even feel insecure if they were cuter or prettier than me…

Since when did we develop such preference for men to be a certain way?

I do think girls have it hard too, in that they need to look pretty, slim, and act in a certain way to attract guys…but often we forget, guys get teased for being small, short, and weak looking.

Then again I suck at cooking, cleaning, ironing, and those stereotypical tasks that women are usually depicted in doing. =s

I would be interested to hear your thoughts.

A Colourful Meaning

I bought a toy for my nephew’s first birthday, however, I didn’t realise it came in two different coloured boxes, pink and blue. As I bought it online, I didn’t realise there was an option to choose the colour and the first one I found was pink… When my sister saw it, she said, “You have to go back to change it to the blue one! He’s a boy!”.

I haven’t researched this, but why do we automatically associate a colour with being a girl or guy colour? From memory, my sister’s favourite colour as a child was baby blue…my favourite colour kept changing as I aged, I wouldn’t call myself feminine, but I most of the stuff I own is pink. Is it because I actually like this colour or has this been conditioned into my subconscious that girls need to like pink and look girly and shit?

Can you really just look at a colour and decide its gender? Why do some people associate some colours with being gender neutral? Some cultures see black as a bad colour and in other cultures it is white. Red is a lucky colour in China and apparently looking at green colours is supposed to be good for your eyes- hence why I got a green coloured iphone LOL. I don’t really understand…but maybe because I am not a parent…

Would be interested to hear your thoughts!