Have you ever thought why players like to be players? As in those who don’t want to commit to one person in a relationship and like to see new people all the time?
I believe I am an optimistic pessimist…if that exists ..I can see the good AND the bad things in every situation..
SO in this particular scenario..
A player gets the thrills of 100 first dates…gets excited for meeting the girl/boy for the first time…excitement of finding out about this new girl/boy. It’s exciting when you do everything for the first time. You go to exciting new restaurants, see movies, try something you never have done before…you learn a lot of things from these 100 first dates from 100 people. The downfall is, that you fall in love easily-and get your heart broken easily. There is no one that’s going to stay by your side..because it’s always changing…You don’t have deep and meaningful connections…
Alternatively would you rather have 100 mediocre dates with the same person? Perhaps you like this person…or perhaps you are just tolerating them..because you’ve been together for so long already.. Maybe your dates have gotten boring…or maybe you don’t even go out anymore…it’s just Netflix and chill all day everyday. Sure, you’ve found stability, loyalty ..but won’t you get tired of the seeing the same person day in and day out?
What would you prefer if you had a choice?